1. Can I just withdraw the whole petition? and go out of the country and travel back on H4 2. Will withdrawing the "Extension+Amendment" petition without responding to the RFE make my presence UNLawful for the last 11 months. (I-94 Expired Dec 2018 last year) because I worked on the client on their new address without an approved amendment?
In amendment case there is no 240 day limit. You can keep working as long as the file is active. 240 days is only extensions without a change. If you want to withdraw and go out of the country and travel back on H-4 for that is fine.There is no unlawful presence here and you should always respond to RFEs. Never walk away from a RFE. It red flags your case. The government starts thinking you are trying to do sometime. FAQ in detail...
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